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		<title>Etiquette for Awkward Moments</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Jul 2009 16:35:42 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Carol Bory</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Etiquette suggestions for socially awkward moments.<p><a href="http://carolboryblog.com/2009/07/etiquette-for-awkward-moments">Etiquette for Awkward Moments</a> is a post from: <a href="http://carolboryblog.com">Carol Bory&#039;s Business Etiquette Blog</a></p>
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<p>We all have those awkward moments when we don&#8217;t know what to say. For instance, what do you do when you can&#8217;t remember a person&#8217;s name? Or, you sneak out of work early and then see your boss later that afternoon?  What if a friend is not paying you back the money you loaned, how do you address the situation without ruining the relationship? Suppose you&#8217;re out to dinner with a big group of friends and you order a modest meal as you are trying to conserve money during these economic times while others order steak and wine. When the check arrives everyone says, &#8220;let’s just split the check.&#8221;</p>
<p>Today on KPNX 12 News I tackled those questions and gave <a title="Etiquette Suggestions for Awkward Moments" href="http://gannett.a.mms.mavenapps.net/mms/rt/1/site/gannett-phoenix-531-pub01-live/current/launch.html?maven_playerId=videopage&amp;maven_referralPlaylistId=23c243f78487dd3c24caa7be83a5dec1a7d96b15&amp;maven_referralObject=1172972017" target="_blank">suggestions</a> on how to handle the awkward moments.</p>
<p><strong>What next?<br />
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<p><a href="http://carolboryblog.com/2009/07/etiquette-for-awkward-moments">Etiquette for Awkward Moments</a> is a post from: <a href="http://carolboryblog.com">Carol Bory&#039;s Business Etiquette Blog</a></p>
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		<title>Etiquette Answers Twitter Style</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 16 Feb 2009 00:35:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Carol Bory</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[In a prior post I mentioned using Twitter to answer your etiquette questions. Below is a snapshot of some of the questions I answered last week, of course in 140 characters or less. Keep them coming!

Is it proper etiquette to look away when someone is typing a password on their computer/phone/etc? There is always that [...]<p><a href="http://carolboryblog.com/2009/02/etiquette-answers-twitter-style">Etiquette Answers Twitter Style</a> is a post from: <a href="http://carolboryblog.com">Carol Bory&#039;s Business Etiquette Blog</a></p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://twitter.com/carolbory"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5303210452083042034" style="FLOAT: left; MARGIN: 10px 10px 0px 0px; WIDTH: 180px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 131px" alt="" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_MhFM3gYqA2s/SZjJzv2MZvI/AAAAAAAAAMw/GewsWw7yThw/s320/twitter-bird.jpg" border="0" /></a>In a prior post I mentioned using <a href="http://twitter.com/carolbory">Twitter</a> to answer your etiquette questions. Below is a snapshot of some of the questions I answered last week, of course in 140 characters or less. Keep them coming!
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<li><strong>Is it proper etiquette to look away when someone is typing a password on their computer/phone/etc? There is always that awkward moment.</strong><br />I look away when someone is typing a password. I give the other person some privacy and it removes the awkward feeling for both of us.</li>
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<li><strong>If your friend&#8217;s parents are taking you out to dinner and they and your friend are vegetarians, can you order meat?</strong><br />If others might be offended with meat at the table ask them to recommend a dish for you to order.</li>
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<li><strong>If someone forgets an attachment, do you reply right away or give them 10 minutes to realize their mistake.<br /></strong>I wait a few minutes and usually a 2nd email comes with the attachment. My rule of thumb is to always try to save face. </li>
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<li><strong>Can you recommend a book on etiquette and protocol to keep in mind when dealing with prominent officials and dignitaries?<br /></strong><em>Protocol,The Complete Handbook of Diplomatic, Official and Social Usage</em> <a href="http://www.usaprotocol.com/" target="_blank">http://www.usaprotocol.com/</a> </li>
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<li><strong>Can I correct a person if they say (or type) my name wrong?<br /></strong>It&#8217;s okay to <strong>politely</strong> correct a person if they say your name wrong. &#8220;I thought you might like to know my name is Christina not Christine.&#8221;</li>
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<li><strong>Is politeness, etiquette at work, a part of business ethics?<br /></strong>Etiquette and ethics share the same linguistic roots. Without both or bond they share, there is no community at all.</li>
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<li><strong>I just saw a seeing eye dog walking through the lobby. Can I pet the dog?</strong><br />Ask the person to pet the seeing eye dog first. See etiquette article: Guide Dog Manners Matter <a href="http://snurl.com/bvvam" target="_blank">http://snurl.com/bvvam</a></li>
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<li><strong>Is it okay to ask a stranger at Starbucks to use his/her laptop to check-in for a flight the next day?</strong><br />I would pass on asking a stranger at Starbucks to borrow their laptop. Similar to a cell phone, it&#8217;s personal attire.</li>
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<li><strong>I&#8217;m printing a new business card. Is it necessary to put all of my social sites on it?</strong><br />I use my business card to list preferred and best methods for clients to contact me.</li>
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<p>What etiquette questions do you have? Send your etiquette questions to me on <a href="http://twitter.com/carolbory">Twitter</a> or by <a href="mailto:carol@carolbory.com">e-mail</a>.</p>
<p><a href="http://carolboryblog.com/2009/02/etiquette-answers-twitter-style">Etiquette Answers Twitter Style</a> is a post from: <a href="http://carolboryblog.com">Carol Bory&#039;s Business Etiquette Blog</a></p>
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